First Date

Don’t Do It on the First Date

 

It might have been awhile since your last date, but if you are really looking for a solid relationship then you probably shouldn’t have sex on the first date.  Not only is it a good way to get a case of herpes but it’s also a good way to not be respected.  This isn’t just for the ladies; it’s for the guys too. 

 

This is how it works guys.  If she sleeps with you on the first date, that means you slept with her on the first date too.  Guess what, she probably doesn’t want to get involved with a guy that sleeps with someone on the first date.  If that’s all you are after then kudos!  However, if you were looking for something a little more lasting, a companion for your days and nights, then don’t sleep with her.

 

Another thing that can go through her head is that if you slept with her on the first date, you probably don’t respect her.  Even if this isn’t true, it won’t matter.  Sex on the first date, usually means a doomed relationship if it is a long term relationship you are after.

 

It is far better to build a romance than to hit it on the first night ladies and gentlemen.  If this is the guy or gal you can see yourself with for a great relationship, then keep it PG for a little while.  See if you can see past the physical attraction and you are more likely to succeed.